Those who feel face confusion

Being in a place where there is conflict between people you love and they go their separate ways is hard. I do not want it, as great things can come from these people especially if they work together, and you have seen God work through them. But the aftermath leaves confusion and hurt. Split loyalties, and a desire for reconciliation. But it just not going to happen. Giving it to God is the only way forward, and asking for understanding and a way to heal the wounds. Trying to not take sides, which is hard when hurt, and making peace with both parties, not matter what is felt is a way forward