Learning from the Church

What do you hope to get out of church. Do you go along because it is just the Sunday thing to do and it has no effect on your life. Perhaps you go just to get a high which gives you the ability to cope with the coming week. I thought I would look at the Parable of the Sower to see if I could shed some light on what happens when we come away from a church service, and perhaps other ways to look at this.

Two things I feel I want when I go to church.
•    To be taught about God, and how to follow Jesus
•    To encounter God through music, prayer and the teaching of the Bible

The parable of the sower is an interesting story that we could relate to our attendance to church. If we used each situation and see which one relates to our experience then we can do something about it. Like find something that is said and apply it to our week ahead.

Ok here’s a question. Do you remember what was said on Sunday if you attended church

If not then does this apply: –
As he scattered them across his field, some seeds fell on a footpath, and the birds came and ate them.
We just forget.

Or when you get to work, school, pub or where ever there are non believers you deny your faith in God
Other seeds fell on shallow soil with underlying rock. The seeds sprouted quickly because the soil was shallow. But the plants soon wilted under the hot sun, and since they didn’t have deep roots, they died.

Or are you getting stressed, and say you cannot possibly remember
Other seeds fell among thorns that grew up and choked out the tender plants.

We all hope that our words will bring people closer to God. Perhaps this Sunday take something away that you can share during the week, whether it is words or actions. It maybe just a simple thing like making someone a cup of tea, or a deep conversation. Whatever. If you forget what is said in a sermon, perhaps do what I do and take a notepad, and write things down. Later look over your notes, pray over them and have a plan of action to live out one point that was made.

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Today’s view

I do not like me, I want someone to save me, rescue me. I am in need
I get sad when I look into myself, I dream of a better me
I am nothing, I have no importance
I want things to be right in the world, between people, and no more bad things happening
I do like seeing bad things happening, I want people to be appreciated
I do not like my thinking mind, I need a transplant to make it clean
I want to be at peace with my brother and sister, may we care for each other rather than rip each other apart
Help me when people hurt me, I am fragile, I do not want bad to happen to anyone

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Gentleness

Those of us who are quiet and have a gentle spirit; you are blessed and appreciated by God. If you are pushed around and hurt, keep going because this is a sign of strength not weakness.

Seek to be gentle, patient, kind, long suffering. Through the pain of it, you shall be rewarded. You will see a different, better world.

It is hard to face pain and rejection. It is hard to face loneliness and the feeling that no one cares. But in all of this you find you are close to God, for by getting to the end of yourself, the only option is to look beyond. Discovering perhaps there is a God, and that is all you can hang onto.

I find myself unemployed at 44 and the struggle to find a job is hard and keeping going in the face of rejection. Sometimes feeling that I am not chosen because I am not out-going enough or just plain quiet. If you find yourself in that position, Keep Going. God cares, and blesses you for being you. It is not a job, or personality or status, etc… that defines you. It is your relationship with God. Keep that central even if it is tough, you are safe and secure.

Strive for gentleness, meekness, humbleness. God is for you and with you.

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Wrecked by Jeff Goins

We all have experiences in life where it completely turns it upside down. Whether that is an experience of going abroad and seeing the poverty and brokenness in the world or just like myself, of building an organisation and then being made redundant. This book examines these experiences and what we can do about them. Jeff has an amazing ability to tell a story in such a way that is engaging and challenging. It is one of a few books that I want to read over again, in case I have missed something or a challenge that I need to think about again. I have also been challenged that you do not really find happiness in gaining more, it is more what you can give of your life, facing new experiences and learning from them. What if you say, about your job, I am going to stick with it, work hard and do my best, no matter what. One of the biggest lessons I have learn’t is there is life to lead, life doesn’t stop with being broken, it is a new beginning and you are seeing in a completely different way that can help you move on and benefit the world around you. Thank you Jeff.

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Mourning

God blesses those who mourn, for they will be comforted. Matthew 5v4

It is funny when we look at the teachings of Jesus. It seems an upside down world. We think we are blessed when everything is going ok. Perhaps we are. But the problem that can occur is when everything is going ok, we forget God, for we become self-sufficient. Only when things start to go a bit wrong, we wake up to God, and a lot of the time we blame God.

I believe that when we are sad, broken or mourning over loss, God is there. He will comfort us! This is just not for ourselves but for those around us too. Have you ever been in a situation when someone you know losses someone close. We want to be there for them, to comfort them. This is what our God is like. It will still be a place of pain, will take time, and be many questions, some of them never answered. But we are blessed by God with comfort.

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God and me

What is your attitude towards God?

How do you treat God?

Is it

  • Isn’t it great God has me
  • I am good so God must be pleased with me
  • I follow all God’s commandments
  • I am not like him/her

Or is it

  • I am unworthy
  • I am so bad
  • No matter what I can do I cannot please God
  • I am the least in God’s Kingdom
  • God is the only one that can bring relief

We can put so much in both columns but I feel if we are not in the second list then we are far from God.

How do you feel about God? My own journey is to find this out. To answer this I need to understand my relationship with God. God is big! God is holy! God is awesome! God runs the universe! So why would God be interested in me? For most they feel God is irrelevant, far away, and only acknowledge Him in a crisis.

But God is interested in us for He made us. Sending Jesus was a sign to get our attention, and start the lines of communication. Jesus experience what it is like to be human and gives us a way of living that brings us fulfilment and God glory.

To be honest that makes me feel like I cannot really approach God. If I just do my own thing all the time and live selfishly then surely God will not be interested in us. But if we come to God and say “Here I am, I am unsure how I can serve a Holy God, as other things grab my attention and I tend to make them more important. Please help me to change.” Then we are a step closer to God. Sin is a word that is used. But if we exclude God then we live for ourselves and the world becomes unfair especially for those who have nothing. Why shouldn’t everyone have a good life? I am convinced that if we put God at the centre of our lives and acknowledge  that we are nothing without Him then our world and the worlds around us would change

These are my thoughts and I am learning. They may be wrong. I am grappling with what it is follow Jesus

Matthew5v3 – God blesses those who are poor and realize their need for him,for the Kingdom of Heaven is theirs.

Luke 18:9-14 Then Jesus told this story to some who had great confidence in their own righteousness and scorned everyone else: “Two men went to the Temple to pray. One was a Pharisee, and the other was a despised tax collector. The Pharisee stood by himself and prayed this prayer: ‘I thank you, God, that I am not a sinner like everyone else. For I don’t cheat, I don’t sin, and I don’t commit adultery. I’m certainly not like that tax collector! I fast twice a week, and I give you a tenth of my income.’ “But the tax collector stood at a distance and dared not even lift his eyes to heaven as he prayed. Instead, he beat his chest in sorrow, saying, ‘O God, be merciful to me, for I am a sinner.’ I tell you, this sinner, not the Pharisee, returned home justified before God. For those who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted.”

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